tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2246732836884762124.post3588453652437503255..comments2023-10-31T15:07:53.468-06:00Comments on The Word That Suits: Sometimes Her Words Make SenseDerinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09610637996004578711noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2246732836884762124.post-17975829612270597542017-02-03T00:27:33.116-06:002017-02-03T00:27:33.116-06:00This is a very interesting article and I can't...This is a very interesting article and I can't resist to make a comment. This is about understanding what leadership or headship is all about. When I run my business - I am the Founder and President of my Company - I am the head of the company. But I CANNOT DO everything. So, I hire people who have expertise in various areas. For instance, I may hire a mechanical engineer. I have NO expertise in this area. An excellent leader surrounds himself or herself with all the expertise he or she needs to make THE ENTERPRISE succeed in its mission.Even though I am the Founder and President of my Company, I cannot contradict the ADVICE of the Mechanical Engineer. It would be foolish to do so. The mechanical engineer knows more than me in that area. So, THE MECHANICAL ENGINEER is the Expert in his or her field. I MUST HONOR THAT EXPERTISE. Otherwise, the whole mission of my own business will fail.<br /><br />In the same way, I am the HEAD of my Household. If my wife has more insight, understanding, wisdom, knowledge or expertise in one area, I MUST EMPOWER HER to bring that so that THE MISSION OF THE HOUSEHOLD may be successful. If I insist that because I am the head / leader I must be the only one to give ideas, that is foolishness.<br /><br />So, men who do not understand this concept of leadership are actually undermining the FAMILY over which God has establish you the head. And in the end, God will ask you to account for why your Household did not fulfill its mission. Every household has a divine mission from God. And it is more important for my household / family to fulfill its full destiny than for me to seek to satisfy my selfish EGO.<br /><br />On the other hand, I would give advice to the woman. You must be wise, especially if you know that YOUR HUSBAND IS INSECURE. You must lean the wisdom for approaching him with your good idea. The goal here is not to prove to him that you know more than he does, or to expose him. This must not be about you and him. It is about THE MISSION.<br /><br />REMEMBER WIFE: A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER OWN HOUSE. A FOOLISH WOMAN TEARS HER OWN HOUSE WITH HER HAND.<br /><br />It is true that some men are so insecure that no matter how the woman approaches him, it still becomes a problem. In that case, ask God to guide you. This is a different topic that I cannot talk about here.<br /><br />So, dear Brother - I am a man like you: YOU ARE THE LEADER/HEAD. But this is not about your own little EGO. Remember: FOCUS ON THE MISSION. PULL YOUR TEAM TOGETHER and take advantage of all the expertise in your household, including that of your wife. The more you get your wife involved, the better for you because that brings two heads together to tackle the issues you face.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05331863983155960272noreply@blogger.com