The Word That Suits: Some Truth About Marriage

Thanking God for the grace of another day and another time of sharing interesting stuff about marriage. I pray and I am positive that homes are positively changing and beautiful renewals are happening in the marital lives of many to the glory of God.

It's no new or strange thing to learn or hear about gross unfaithfulness in a lot of marriages. It's not new to hear of a husband cheating on his wife by having adulterous affairs with other woman, neither is it something unheard of that a woman who is the pride and crown of her husband's life and the heartbeat of her marriage sneaking secretly to have a love affair with another man who is not her husband while she is carry the honorary status of being married. Even among pastors and pastors wives this sacrilege is happening..

In as much we I agree totally that everyone is susceptible to falling and no one is above temptation, I will say with all humility that God didn't promise us a temptation free walk with Him. God will not judge any man for being tempted, but a man will be judged based on his reaction to temptation. And as such it's important to pray at all times and be on the guard against the enticement of evil.

I once read a write-up posted on my whatsapp chat forum that says: you will always find someone who has more money than your spouse, you will always find someone who is more good looking than your spouse, you will always find someone who is more kindhearted than your spouse, you will always find someone who is more fashion conscious than your spouse, you will always find someone who is funnier or more pleasant or more sensitive than your spouse, but the true value of marriage is to stay committed to what your vows, appreciate him/her that you have as spouse and make the best of what God has blessed you with in your spouse. If you desire a change, you can make it happen in love through prayers and the right attitude.

It is a one too many occurrence that you find a wife in a deprive marriage who has been starved of love, respect and the dignity of being a wife running into the arms of a male lover to obtain what she couldn't get from her husband. It's assumed a way of getting back at her husband who is assumed to be cheating on her too.

To begin with, two wrongs has never added up to arrive at a right, and trying to solve a problem by creating another problem has never made the situation better but worse. First as a wife, God loves you too much to watch you suffer or be maltreated by any man in the name of a husband. There are several portions of the Bible (Malachi 2:13, 1Peter 3:7) where God shows His support for the woman in marriage.

One truth that we need to understand is that there is no challenge in marriage that we can solve by ourselves based on our understanding or limited wisdom. And such is the case of trying to get back at a cheating husband by cheating on him too, or trying to exert control over a wife by using force and violence. The most assuring way that is guaranteed of yielding a lasting positive result is by handing the situation to God and letting Him fix it.

When you have an equipment that is malfunctioning it's just logical that you take it back to its manufacturer to fix the fault and hand it back to you when done. And also teach you how to operate the equipment such that it will not go bad again. So when you have a problem with your spouse the ideal thing to do is pray to God, committing your spouse and the unpleasant situation between the two of you to God in prayers. When you pray and the Lord speaks to you on how to act in the situation, please follow his voice even when what He has asked you to do isn't the way you think it should be. Because if you obey you will surely reap peace and love in your marriage far above what you would have experienced if you did it your way.

In marriage, the popular way is not necessarily the right way. Because someone you know is doing it wrong in her/his marriage and getting away with it does not mean you will get away following the same route. Make sure in all you do, you work at it with your relationship with God intact. If you compromise everything, never compromise your walk with God.

There are more materials available for you to read and be blessed with written through the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, available to impact knowledge in you that you need for that life changing experience that you have been praying for. My people perish for lack of knowledge is what the Lord God Almighty says. The most high God has revealed some deep knowledge through the pages of these books and by His grace your life will be enlightened by the power of God through Jesus Christ as you get copies for yourself, read them and allow the truth contained in them make a meaningful difference in your life.

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